Always be quick to forgive
Published 12:00 am Wednesday, March 11, 2009
I have been accused of having a sharp (a nicer word than sarcastic) tongue. My wife, on the other hand, has a sweet spirit, but she clearly sends a message to get my attention.
Many years ago, one such incident happened soon after I quit drinking. We were eating at a restaurant and, for the sake of conversation, I said, “I’ve really had an exciting life!” Without a pause, she responded, “That’s been my big problem. Needless to say, I quickly changed the subject.
Jeanne often reminds me that I have to be more understanding and patient with her. She tells me that she wishes I would tolerate her as much as I do some of my friends. I have to admit I’m guilty, but I’m trying and feel as though I’m improving in that area.
Well, last week, I blew it and took it out on Jeanne. After the dust settled, she was washing dishes and I, defensively, went
to her and asked her forgiveness.
As usual, she was quick to forgive.
I then made the mistake of saying, “You’re good at forgiving.” Again, without a pause, she said, “You’ve given me a lot of practice.”
I thought about that over the past few days and am reminded that Jeanne has been a true example of a Christian. She’s quick to forgive.
Because of my impatience, lack of compassion and sharp tongue, I realize that I have given her many chances to be a forgiving wife.
As I reflect on Jeanne’s godly characteristic of forgiveness, I’m grateful for my God, who in spite of
my ungodly behavior over the ye-ars, has always been ready to forgive me for all of my sins. The Bible
says that He not only forgives, but He forgets about our transgres-sions.
Come to think about it, I’m a blessed man!
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